Riverton, Utah – Community Mourns the Tragic Loss of Teen Haven Alexander McBride, Fatally Shot by Stepfather
The quiet community of Riverton, Utah, has been shaken to its core following the tragic and untimely death of 18-year-old Haven Alexander McBride, a promising young man whose life was taken far too soon. The incident occurred inside the family’s home, leaving relatives and neighbors grappling with disbelief, grief, and unanswered questions.
Alexander, fondly known as “Haven” by his family and close friends, had just graduated with honors from Mountain Ridge High School. Described as intelligent, compassionate, and full of potential, he had his sights set on a future in forensic science, aiming to make a meaningful difference in the world. Haven was also in the final stages of preparing for a mission trip with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, a journey he had been excited about and deeply committed to.
But those dreams came to a heartbreaking end when, according to authorities, he was fatally shot by his stepfather, 46-year-old Joseph Lee, in what investigators are calling a domestic tragedy.
Stepfather Turns Himself In
Joseph Lee, a former Green Beret with extensive firearms training, turned himself in to authorities following the incident. He has since been charged with manslaughter.
The Salt Lake County Sheriff’s Office confirmed that surveillance footage inside the family’s home played a pivotal role in the investigation. The footage reportedly captured the tragic moments surrounding the shooting, leading detectives to file charges against Lee.
According to initial reports, the family had been gathered in the same room at the time the firearm was discharged. What exactly led to the shooting has not been made fully public, but investigators continue to piece together the details as the case moves forward.
A Promising Life Cut Short
Haven’s loved ones describe him as a young man who radiated kindness and quiet strength. He was admired not only for his academic achievements but for his generosity, sense of humor, and deep faith.
“He had a bright future ahead of him,” said a family friend. “He was so proud to have just graduated, and he was genuinely excited about his mission work. He wanted to help people—always. That’s just who he was.”
Haven’s commitment to both education and service was evident in all he did. Teachers at Mountain Ridge remember him as a standout student with an insatiable curiosity and a respectful, humble demeanor.
A Community in Mourning
As news of the incident spread, a wave of sorrow and shock rippled through Riverton. Friends, classmates, and church members have expressed their grief in an outpouring of tributes on social media, many calling for love, support, and healing for the McBride family.
A memorial has been set up near the family’s home, where neighbors and loved ones have left candles, flowers, and notes expressing condolences and prayers.
Local LDS leaders and mental health counselors have offered their services to the grieving community, recognizing the deep emotional impact of such a loss—especially one occurring under such heartbreaking circumstances.
Legal Proceedings and Investigation
Joseph Lee remains in custody as the investigation continues. While he has not yet entered a plea, his extensive military background and familiarity with firearms have raised serious concerns about gun safety and domestic firearm use.
Authorities have not speculated on a motive but are continuing to review evidence, including the home surveillance footage and statements from family members present during the incident.
More details are expected to emerge as the case proceeds through the court system.
Honoring Haven’s Memory
In the face of unimaginable loss, Haven’s family is asking the public to honor his life by living with kindness and compassion—the same values he carried every day.
A public memorial service is being planned, and the family has announced the creation of a scholarship fund in Haven’s name to support students pursuing careers in forensic science and public service.
“Haven was a light in our lives,” said a statement from the family. “He was thoughtful, determined, and deeply loved. We are devastated, but we will honor his life by continuing the good he wanted to do in the world.”
As the community continues to grapple with this senseless loss, one truth remains: Haven Alexander McBride touched countless lives in his short time on Earth—and his memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.
